The art of Respect: Shrine manners in Japanese culture
Things to remember
Etiquette and Tips:
Before visiting a shrine, it’s a good idea to review the basic etiquette and proper procedures for worship.
Taking a moment to understand the customs not only shows respect for the sacred space, but also helps you approach your visit with a calm and mindful attitude.
We’ll introduce the main etiquette for paying respects at a shrine.
By following these simple customs, you can offer your greetings properly and leave feeling refreshed in both body and spirit.
How to Worship at a Shrine
Step 1:
Bow Before Passing Through the Torii Gate
Stop in front of the torii gate and make a respectful bow before entering the shrine grounds. The torii marks the boundary between the ordinary world and the sacred space, so this simple gesture shows reverence before stepping inside.
A shrine is a sacred place where the deities are believed to reside.
Before entering, pause once in front of the torii gate and offer a respectful bow. This simple gesture marks your transition from the everyday world into a sacred space.
It is said that the center of the approach path to the shrine is reserved for the gods. For this reason, walking directly down the middle is considered impolite. Instead, try to walk along either side of the path as you make your way toward the main hall.
Step 2:
Purify your hands and mouth at the temizusha (water pavilion).
How to Purify Yourself at the Temizuya
Before offering your prayers at the shrine, cleanse your hands and mouth by following these steps:
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Hold the ladle in your right hand, scoop up some water, and pour it over your left hand to purify it.
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Switch the ladle to your left hand and pour water over your right hand.
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Hold the ladle in your right hand again. Pour a small amount of water into your left palm and use it to rinse your mouth lightly. Be careful not to touch the ladle directly to your mouth.
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Pour a little more water over your left hand. Finally, hold the ladle upright and let the remaining water run down the handle to cleanse it before returning it to its original place.
This simple purification ritual prepares both your body and mind before approaching the main hall for prayer.
Step 3:
What to Wear
When visiting a shrine, choose clothing that reflects respect for this sacred place.
Avoid overly revealing or flashy outfits, and opt for neat, modest attire instead. Dressing thoughtfully helps maintain the dignified atmosphere of the shrine and shows consideration for the traditions upheld there.
◆ Pet Policy
If you plan to bring a pet, please check in advance whether pets are permitted on the shrine grounds.
Before Offering Your Prayers
Ring the shrine bell gently before paying your respects. The sound is said to announce your presence to the deities.
When making an offering, please do not throw coins into the offering box. Instead, place them in quietly and respectfully.
How to Offer Your Prayers
When standing before the main hall, follow the traditional custom of two bows, two claps, and one final bow.
First, bow deeply twice.
Next, clap your hands twice and offer your prayer silently.
Finally, conclude with one more deep bow.
After finishing, make a slight bow before stepping back from the altar.
This respectful sequence expresses gratitude and reverence to the deities.
First, make two deep bows.
Clap your hands twice at chest level. Keep your hands about shoulder-width apart, with your right hand slightly lower than your left when clapping.
Place your hands together with fingers aligned, give thanks to the gods, and offer your prayers.
Finally, bow deeply one last time (one bow).
Please note that ritual practices and customs may vary depending on the shrine. We recommend checking the specific guidelines at each shrine upon arrival.
Step 4
Before Leaving the Shrine
Before exiting the shrine grounds, pause and offer one final respectful bow.
This gesture expresses gratitude for your visit and marks your return from the sacred space to everyday life.
After completing your visit, turn to face the main shrine building and offer one final bow as you leave the grounds.
This simple gesture expresses gratitude and respect before returning to your everyday surroundings.
The First Shrine Visit of the Year
The first shrine visit of the year is an opportunity to express gratitude for the past year and to pray for health, happiness, and success in the year ahead.
When offering your prayers, remember to give thanks — not only to ask for blessings. Gratitude is an essential part of the tradition.
It is also recommended to focus on one sincere wish rather than making many requests. By concentrating your thoughts, you can approach your prayer with greater clarity and intention.
◆ With the Kind Cooperation of Toyokage Shrine